I have read this online, somewhere. It is really meaningful, and I hope to share!
There are over a few billions of people on earth, how many of them are those we can really hug, hold hand, talk your heart out? how many of them are just someone we say hi whenever we see each others face to face?
Sometimes I feel, if I have to count the number of someone that could really enter my heart and understand me, can I count them with just one hand?
I realised, there are different storey/ floor in our heart for social network. If we can choose...
Storey 1 Shop house friends (SHF)
For SHF, is what we call HI/BYE friend. Sometimes, a few sentence like, "have you eaten?", "where are you going?", will be enough.
Storey 2 Living room friends (LRF)
We can sit down and have a cup of tea/coffee, and chat/ gossip about what is going on around us. They help us walk through those lonely days, and we always feel satisfied and happy at the end of the day.
Storey 3 Kitchen friends (KF)
KF are those you can open your heart to. Normally, for girl friends, they always start the conversation/ chat with laughter/ tears, and end with laughter and happiness. Then you will feel that you really know each others well, and you will never feel lonely.
Storey 4 Bedroom friends (BrF)
BrF is someone that you can really share your deepest secret, and you can have body contact with. You can talk everything under the sun. Your relationship is like a switch for light. When the switch is on in the bedroom, you can chat/ play/ laugh like the old friends, and when the lights are off(which means you are off to your work/personal life), you will still know where is the switch.
Top storey balcony Fate friends (FF)
Normally, this storey is empty physically. Sometimes, a bird might stop over, wind might blow some grass here... you will never expect anything to come. It might look empty, but you know, it is filled with memories, those memories that puts a smile on your face, tears in your eyes.
I have this habit; I walk pass the shop houses with one second, and follow by the living room at the next two seconds. Stop over at the kitchen for three minutes, and maybe spend four hours to sleep at the bedroom. And at last, spend five days to wait at the balcony, waiting the surprise and beauty that God might bring me.
When your eyes are filled with tears of disappointment after waiting at the balcony, start from the shop house again. Sometimes, this process will bring you a small pinch of love, happiness, etc... It seems that, you can own the whole building of emotion, and be strong again.
So, where will you categorise your friends under?
Friends come and go, but someone whom you can really open yourself and share your heart with is really hard to find. We need friends. If someone could rise up to the sky alone, and enjoy the beauty of the stars in the sky, he will never feel happy. He has to find someone to share, in order to fullfill everything.
So, have you found someone to share the stars with? :)
